571 :: How to Stop Trying to Be Liked & Start Leading a More Accountable Team

Do you want your team to like you or do you want to lead them effectively?

Wanting to be liked sounds like a positive leadership trait. But when the need for approval keeps you from having tough conversations, coaching your people, or creating healthy accountability, it can become the very thing limiting your effectiveness.

In this episode, Bradley Hartmann explores the classic Harvard Business Review article Power Is the Great Motivator and its counterintuitive argument about what separates highly effective managers from the rest.

Rather than being driven primarily by recognition, personal achievement, or the desire to be liked, effective managers develop the ability to use power as positive influence—strengthening people, creating clarity, changing behavior, and concentrating a team’s efforts on the challenges that matter most.

Listen to discover:

• Why the need to be liked can make tough conversations and healthy accountability much harder.
• How an achievement-driven mindset can keep managers doing the work themselves instead of influencing others to perform.
• How to rethink power as a positive leadership tool for influencing behavior, executing strategy, and building stronger teams.

Play this episode to identify what’s driving your leadership and learn how to use influence more effectively to build a stronger team, execute your strategy, and tackle the challenges standing between you and your goals.

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